Participants introduced themselves and shared the work that is happening in this area, but that information was not captured on newsprint.
“Green”and“sustainable” are turn offs for some.
People in the sustainability movement don’t know how to talk so others can relate. This is especially true in trying to communicate across race and class. Tendency to lecture or suggest that they “have the answers.”
o Create initiatives that people would come to learn from and about
o Bring money from outside
· Open doors so people feel like the “sustainability” movement is a place for them.
· Start with relatively simple, concrete steps. For example, Gardens4Humanity helped build raised beds at some homes and community organizations. Make it so people can see and hear about the benefits from people they know and trust.
HABITS – NEW | HABITS – OLD |
Forgiveness | Holding grudges, resentment, disappointment |
Core spiritual principles (ties that bind us together) | Focus on marketing v. relationships |
Mindfulness, talk to more people | Rush, work hastily, “do” urgently |
Convening the wisdom of the community | Convening “experts” |
Expand the notion of “expertise” | Passing the job to the “experts” and underestimating ourselves |
Inviting “outside” perspectives | Using confusing, insider language |
Ask what new relationships can I build? | Talking about wanting new relationships without taking action. |
Think about whose voice might be useful in adding to the conversation. | Assuming that just because we like people, we are being inclusive |
Make new relationships intentionally—formally make informal relationships:· Invite people to movies, to dinner, to theater· Get to know people by helping with what they are working on |
· Invite people to work on what we’re doing
· Small projects to work together for a small period
· Work on something in commonOnly interact with certain people: of similar age, same neighborhood, background similar to oursCollaboration on projects of mutual interest—on common causeActing as if it’s OK to live segregated lives.Believing “it’s not my problem.”Have the intention to do it differently, and take concrete steps re: relationships“I’m tired of educating white people.”Seek information about what people are doing and struggling withFill up our time and sacrifice relationshipsBe curious, try thingsStay stuck in ignorance, guilt, feeling intimidated